Collection: Male Masturbators

How to choose

The right male masturbator comes down to fit, feel, and how much cleanup you want afterward. Here's what actually matters.

• Tightness: open-ended sleeves give a looser, adjustable grip. Closed strokers like the Tenga Spinner 06 Brick hug tighter for more intensity.
• Texture: ribs, nubs, and internal chambers change the feel a lot. A Sexflesh firm pussy-and-ass toy runs realistic, while a spinner leans stylized and buzzy.
• Vibration: models like the 10x Vibrating Ass or the Sucking and Vibrating Pussy add motors and suction for near hands-free play.
• Discretion: pocket strokers such as the Jesse Jane Pocket Pussy stash easily. Bigger doggie-style pieces like Mistress Tia feel more lifelike but need a drawer.
• Cleanup: open ends rinse fast. Closed and vibrating units take a little more care around the motor.

Types

Tips & care

Always use a water-based lube. Silicone lube can break down TPE and silicone toys, so skip it here. After you finish, rinse the sleeve with warm water and a little mild soap, turn open-ended ones inside out to get everything clean, and let it fully air-dry before storing. A dusting of renewal powder keeps the soft skin-feel material from turning tacky. Keep water away from the motor and battery port on vibrating models, and store your toy somewhere cool and out of sunlight. Done right, a good masturbator lasts for years.

Editor's picks

Tenga Spinner - 06 Brick Stroker

A standout pick in this category.

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Mistress Tia Doggie Style Masturbator- Tan

Great value and reliable performance.

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Sucking And Vibrating Pussy Masturbator

A customer favorite worth a look.

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Male Masturbators FAQ

What's the difference between a stroker and a pocket pussy?
A stroker is usually an open-ended sleeve you can grip and adjust, while a pocket pussy is a compact, often closed unit shaped like an orifice. Both feel great; pocket styles just hide easier.

How do I clean a male masturbator?
Rinse it with warm water and mild soap after every use, turning open-ended sleeves inside out. Let it air-dry completely, then add a little renewal powder to keep the material soft.

Do I need lube with these?
Yes. A water-based lube makes everything feel better and protects the toy. Avoid silicone lube, since it can damage TPE and silicone sleeves.

Are vibrating masturbators worth it?
If you want extra stimulation and a more hands-free feel, they're worth it. Just plan on a bit more cleanup and care around the motor and battery area.

How discreet is shipping?
Every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with no product names on the outside and a neutral billing descriptor, so it stays private.

Written and reviewed by the Paradise team. Updated July 2026.