Collection: Dildos

How to choose

• Material first. Platinum silicone is nonporous, easy to clean, and safe for long sessions. Avoid jelly or mystery blends with a strong smell.
• Size honestly. Length gets the attention, but girth is what you actually feel. If you're new, start around 5 to 6.5 inches and work up.
• Base and use. A suction cup base rides walls, floors, and chairs hands-free and drops into most strap-on harnesses. A flared base is a must for anal safety.
• Feel. Firm shafts give strong pressure; dual-density and squeezable models flex and warm up more like a real body.
• Power. Want more than a static toy? Vibrating and auto-thrusting models do the work for you. Motors add buzz and, honestly, a little noise.

Types

Tips & care

Use plenty of water-based lube with silicone toys, since silicone lube can degrade the surface over time. Wash before and after every use with mild soap and warm water, and let it fully dry before storage. A nonporous silicone dildo with no motor can be boiled or run through the top rack of the dishwasher; anything with a battery or a squirt bulb gets wiped down by hand instead. Store toys separately in a pouch so colors don't bleed and dust stays off. Go slow, add more lube than you think you need, and never share a toy without a fresh condom or a full clean in between.

Editor's picks

Black Silicone Strap-on Dildo -

A standout pick in this category.

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Raging Cockstars Just Bang Jack 8.5 Inch Realistic Dildo

Great value and reliable performance.

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Squeezable Phallic Dildo

A customer favorite worth a look.

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Dildos FAQ

What material is safest for a dildo?
Body-safe platinum or medical grade silicone is the top choice because it's nonporous, easy to sanitize, and hypoallergenic. Steer clear of jelly, PVC, or unlabeled materials that can trap bacteria.

What size dildo should a beginner start with?
Start around 5 to 6.5 inches in length with a slimmer girth, like our 6.5 inch model with balls. You can always size up once you know what feels good.

How does a suction cup dildo work?
The flat base creates a seal on any smooth, clean surface such as tile, a hardwood floor, or a chair, holding the toy in place for hands-free play. It also drops straight into most strap-on harnesses.

Can I use a dildo with a strap-on harness?
Yes, any dildo with a flared or suction cup base fits standard O-ring harnesses. Match the base ring size to your harness opening for a secure hold.

Is my order shipped discreetly?
Every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with a neutral sender name and no product images on the box, so nothing on the outside hints at what's inside.

Written and reviewed by the Paradise team. Updated July 2026.