Collection: Couples Toys

How to choose

Pick based on how you want to play together, then check the specs. A few things that actually matter:

• Who holds the control? Remote toys like a bullet, panty vibe or the 7x Pulse Pro let one partner tease the other. Check the range and whether the remote is app or radio based.
• Solo add-on vs. shared gear. A vibrating bullet adds buzz during sex. A strap-on or strapless dildo is its own act. Know which one you're buying.
• Material. Stick with body-safe silicone. It's nonporous, easy to clean and warms to skin. Skip anything that won't tell you what it's made of.
• Power source. Rechargeable beats batteries for strength and cost over time, but always have a backup plan mid-session.
• Noise. Strong motors hum. If you share walls, look for a lower, deeper motor over a loud high whine.
• Restraints. Adjustable cuffs and hog-tie straps should have quick-release. Start loose, agree on a safe word, keep scissors nearby.

Types

Tips & care

Use plenty of water-based lube with silicone toys and skip silicone lube, which can degrade the surface over time. Clean everything with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner before and after, and let it fully dry before storage. Keep toys in a bag or their own pouch so they don't pick up lint or rub against each other. For anything shared between partners or between different kinds of play, either wash thoroughly in between or roll on a fresh condom. Charge rechargeables before a big night, talk through a safe word before you break out the restraints, and store batteries out of any toy you're leaving idle for a while.

Editor's picks

4 Cuff Adjustable Hog Tie Restraint Strap

A standout pick in this category.

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Double Love Connection Silicone Panty Vibe With Remote Control

Great value and reliable performance.

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Remote Control Couples Vibe Kit

A customer favorite worth a look.

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Couples Toys FAQ

What are the best couples toys for beginners?
Start with a remote-control bullet or a panty vibe. They're easy to use, non-intimidating, and let one partner tease the other, which is a fun way to ease into shared toys.

How does a strapless strap-on work?
One bulb sits inside the wearer and holds in place with your muscles, while the shaft is used on your partner. Both people get sensation, and no harness is needed, though a harness can add stability.

Are these toys safe to share between partners?
Yes, if you clean them properly. Wash silicone toys with warm water and mild soap between uses, or put a condom on shared toys and swap it out to avoid passing anything back and forth.

Do the remote-control toys work from another room?
Most radio remotes reach across a room and sometimes farther, while app-controlled toys can work over Wi-Fi from anywhere. Check the listed range on each toy, since walls and distance can cut a radio signal short.

Will my order show what's inside?
No. Everything ships in a plain, unmarked box with a discreet billing name, so nothing on the label or your statement gives away what you bought.

Written and reviewed by the Paradise team. Updated July 2026.